I have read a lot about women who have the problem with their boyfriends, but nothing from men. After maybe 1-2 minutes of performing oral sex with my tongue, my tongue slows down and stops, almost freezes, and becomes extremely painful. Needless to say, my partner is extremely unsatisfied and our sex life has suffered as a result. I would like to hear from any men or women who have suggestions or answers. I grind my teeth and have been wearing a mouth guard at night for years. My jaw muscles hurt all the time, day and night….I have been to many dentists all of whom suggest different expensive treatments, with no degree of confidence that they can actually cure this . It has been with me for a while but has gotten much worse over the past few years, to the point where i am not unable to bring a woman to orgasm with my tongue. Help !

Ok. are u sure it’s ur TMJ that is causing the problem?
do u experience any other symptoms such as fatigue when shaving (with arm raised) or while climbing the stairs?? or after talking too much?
do you feel better if you rest and then continue?
because if your answer is yes, then you might have some other problem e.g Myasthenia gravis. look this up.
i hope you’ll find an answer and a solution for your problem. i have a TMJ and it is very difficult to perform oral but i do it anyway!
peace!
heat therapy for your problem and vibrator for your partner ,
I would recommend applying heat to the affected joint(s).